Yes Guruji, even when I declared I'll not marry, everyone advise me you need someone to take care of you when you are sick & in old age. But, I am born with Independent & taking care of myself without any expectation that someone need to help me. What all arrangement needed to be independent, I am making myself. I was thinking how people expect somebody should take care of them. Such very thought make them not to take care of them, neglect their health & protection, don't make arrangements to be independent... Finally, if nobody supported, they'll suffer very badly, because, they have not trained themselves to be independent... Such people are the one who suffer the most. Thank you Guruji for this knowledge. Yes, being independent will free us from suffering.... -Sunitha S Rao