This Homa can be performed seeking divine intervention if you are short-tempered or someone's short temper is affecting you.

Chandra Shanti Homa + Mangal (Mars) Shanti Homa

We do this Homa every day.

You can select the frequency as you want.

• Just once on a date of your choice
• A few consecutive days
• Once a week for a few weeks
• Once a month on your nakshatra / any other day for a few months.

Suggested frequency

• 7 consecutive days for issues if the issue is severe
• Every Monday for 6 months
• Once a month on nakshatra / any other day for 6 months or 1 year

Why we suggest repeating the Puja

A Puja can either be conducted as a detailed ceremony once or as brief, repeated pujas over a period.

Repeating Vedic Pujas can be more effective than performing an elaborate puja just once, you can consider the following points:

• Repetition Reinforces Intentions: Repetition helps reinforce your  intentions, creating a stronger spiritual connection over time. It can deepen your focus and commitment, amplifying the puja''s impact.
• Building Spiritual Discipline: Repeated pujas contribute to the development of spiritual discipline, fostering a sense of dedication and devotion.
• Incremental Accumulation of Positive Energy: Repeating pujas regularly can lead to a gradual accumulation of positive energy, creating a sustained and heightened spiritual atmosphere. The cumulative effect of repeated pujas can result in a more profound impact on the individual's l well-being.
• Consistent Alignment with Cosmic Rhythms: Vedic pujas often align with cosmic rhythms, and regular practice ensures continuous alignment with these cosmic forces, enhancing the ritual's effectiveness. Repetition can synchronize your energy with the natural cycles, creating a harmonious resonance.
• Strengthening Spiritual Resonance: Repeated pujas create a resonance within you fostering a harmonious connection with the spiritual realm. Regular engagement helps in attuning the individual to the subtle energies involved in the puja, leading to a more potent spiritual experience. 
• Cultivating Patience and Perseverance: The discipline of repeated pujas fosters patience and perseverance, essential qualities for growth.

Please note -

1. This is a Puja done with public participation and not exclusively for you.
2. When you enroll, you are also making a part contribution towards the conduct of this Homa.
3. All daily Homas are performed in a single session, one after another. Watch the video below to know how the daily Homa is performed.
4. Videos of Pujas will be available for viewing Videos section once they are uploaded. Look for the video of your puja date under the Live or Videos tab. This is subject to technical factors.
5. Sankalpa will not be shown in the video. This is because your privacy and confidentiality of your personal prayers are important to us.
6. Vibhuti prasada is sent by ordinary post within India.

How short temper affects family life -

• A short temper puts constant strain on family relationships, creating an environment where interactions are tense and uncomfortable.
• The atmosphere of tension can be palpable, affecting the overall mood and energy within the household.
• Children, especially, may feel insecure and anxious in such an environment, impacting their emotional development and sense of stability.
• Effective communication becomes challenging when one family member has a short temper, as discussions often escalate into heated arguments.
• The tendency to escalate conflicts easily can lead to prolonged disputes, further disrupting the harmony within the family.
• The continuous exposure to anger and outbursts can have negative effects on the mental and emotional well-being of all family members.

Pray for -

• Pray for patience to replace anger.
• Ask for understanding in difficult situations.
• Seek emotional healing and inner calm.
• Request guidance towards positive communication.
• Pray for awareness of the impact on others.
• Appeal for a transformed, tranquil temperament.
• Ask for strength to overcome short-temper tendencies.
• Seek divine support in fostering harmonious relationships.

Say this prayer on the day of your puja -

Oh [add the name of your favorite God/Goddess here]

in this moment of reflection, I humbly seek your divine intervention for the reformation of a short-tempered soul. Grant me/him/her the gift of patience, that I/he/she may navigate life's challenges with a calm and collected spirit. Bless me/him/her heart with understanding, fostering empathy towards others' perspectives.

May your divine light illuminate my/his/her path, providing the wisdom to manage frustrations with grace and composure. Shower me/him/her with the strength to transform anger into constructive actions, fostering harmony within my/his/her soul and me/him/her relationships. I beseech you to instill a profound sense of inner peace, creating a sanctuary where tranquility reigns.

In this sacred prayer, I ask for forgiveness for any harm caused by past outbursts, seeking your divine mercy and guidance in the journey of self-improvement. Surround me/him/her with the support and love of my/his/her dear ones, forming a protective cocoon of understanding and encouragement.

May this prayer serve as a beacon of hope, a plea for transformation, and a heartfelt request for relief in the face of short-tempered struggles. In your boundless compassion, I trust, and with gratitude, I offer this prayer. 

Om Shanti Shanti Shanti

Some practical tips to handle short-tempered persons

• Stay Calm: Maintain your own composure. Responding with anger or frustration can escalate the situation. Take deep breaths to help manage your own stress and anxiety.
• Empathize: Try to understand their perspective and emotions. Empathy can defuse tension and create a more positive interaction.
• Don't Take it Personally: Remember that the person's anger is likely not about you. They may be dealing with personal issues or stress.
• Give Them Space: Allow some time and space for the person to cool down before addressing the issue. Pressing the matter may exacerbate their anger.
• Use Calm and Clear Communication: Speak in a calm and steady tone. Avoid raising your voice or using confrontational language. Be clear and concise in your communication to prevent misunderstandings.
• Set Boundaries: Politely assert your own boundaries. Let the person know that you are willing to discuss the issue, but not in a hostile or aggressive manner.
• Find Common Ground: Identify areas of agreement or shared interests. This can help shift the focus from conflict to commonality.
• Offer Solutions: If the person is upset about a specific issue, work together to find solutions. Problem-solving can redirect negative energy into constructive action.
• Avoid Trigger Topics: Be mindful of sensitive subjects that may provoke anger. Steer clear of these topics during conversations.
• Seek Professional Help if Necessary: If the person's anger is chronic and causing significant issues, encourage them to seek professional help or suggest conflict resolution mediation.
• Stay Safe: If the person becomes physically aggressive, prioritize your safety. Remove yourself from the situation and seek assistance if needed.
• Model Positive Behavior: Demonstrate patience and understanding. Your behavior can influence the overall tone of the interaction.