This Homa can be performed praying to seek relief if someone at home is having destructive tendencies.

We do this Homa every day.

You can select the frequency as you want.

• Just once on a date of your choice
• Once a week on Mondays for a few weeks
• Once a month on your nakshatra / any other day for a few months.

Suggested frequency

• Perform on 11 Tuesdays
• Perform on 21 Tuesdays
• Perform on 51 Tuesdays
• Perform on 5 consecutive days whenever the issue is intense.

Why we suggest repeating the Puja

A Puja can either be conducted as a detailed ceremony once or as brief, repeated pujas over a period.

Repeating Vedic Pujas can be more effective than performing an elaborate puja just once, you can consider the following points:

• Repetition Reinforces Intentions: Repetition helps reinforce your  intentions, creating a stronger spiritual connection over time. It can deepen your focus and commitment, amplifying the puja''s impact.
• Building Spiritual Discipline: Repeated pujas contribute to the development of spiritual discipline, fostering a sense of dedication and devotion.
• Incremental Accumulation of Positive Energy: Repeating pujas regularly can lead to a gradual accumulation of positive energy, creating a sustained and heightened spiritual atmosphere. The cumulative effect of repeated pujas can result in a more profound impact on the individual's l well-being.
• Consistent Alignment with Cosmic Rhythms: Vedic pujas often align with cosmic rhythms, and regular practice ensures continuous alignment with these cosmic forces, enhancing the ritual's effectiveness. Repetition can synchronize your energy with the natural cycles, creating a harmonious resonance.
• Strengthening Spiritual Resonance: Repeated pujas create a resonance within you fostering a harmonious connection with the spiritual realm. Regular engagement helps in attuning the individual to the subtle energies involved in the puja, leading to a more potent spiritual experience. 
• Cultivating Patience and Perseverance: The discipline of repeated pujas fosters patience and perseverance, essential qualities for growth.

Please note -

1. This is a Puja done with public participation and not exclusively for you.
2. When you enroll, you are also making a part contribution towards the conduct of this Homa.
3. All daily Homas are performed in a single session, one after another. Watch the video below to know how the daily Homa is performed.
4. Videos of Pujas will be available for viewing Videos section once they are uploaded. Look for the video of your puja date under the Live or Videos tab. This is subject to technical factors.
5. Vibhuti prasada is sent by ordinary post within India.
6. Sankalpa will not be shown in the video. This is because your privacy and confidentiality of your personal prayers are important to us.

If someone at home is exhibiting destructive tendencies, it can have significant and wide-ranging impacts on the individuals involved and the overall family dynamic. Here are some potential consequences:

1. Emotional Distress:
• Living with someone who has destructive tendencies can cause emotional distress for all family members. Fear, anxiety, and constant tension may become pervasive in the household.
2. Physical Safety Concerns:
• Destructive behaviors can pose immediate physical threats to the safety of family members. This may include acts of violence, property damage, or other harmful actions.
3. Breakdown in Trust:
• Destructive behaviors erode trust within the family. Family members may feel betrayed and find it challenging to rely on or confide in the individual with destructive tendencies.
4. Isolation:
• Family members may withdraw and isolate themselves to avoid confrontations or harm. This can lead to a breakdown in communication and further strain relationships.
5. Impact on Children:
• Children exposed to destructive tendencies may suffer long-term emotional and psychological consequences. Witnessing destructive behaviors can contribute to issues such as anxiety, depression, and behavioral problems.
6. Financial Strain:
• Destructive behaviors can lead to financial strain, especially if they involve the destruction of property or impulsive, financially irresponsible actions.
7. Legal Consequences:
• Destructive behaviors may have legal implications, leading to arrests, restraining orders, or other legal actions that can disrupt family life.
8. Health Consequences:
• The stress and tension resulting from destructive tendencies can lead to adverse health effects, including physical ailments and mental health challenges for all family members.
9. Impact on Relationships:
• Destructive behaviors strain relationships, leading to a breakdown in intimacy and connection. The affected individual may struggle to maintain healthy connections with family members.
10. Cycle of Abuse:
• Destructive tendencies can contribute to a cycle of abuse within the family. The affected individual may have experienced trauma themselves, perpetuating harmful behaviors across generations.
11. Disruption of Daily Life:
• Daily routines and activities may be disrupted due to the unpredictability of destructive tendencies, impacting the overall stability of the household.
12. Emotional Exhaustion:
• Family members may experience emotional exhaustion from dealing with the ongoing challenges and uncertainties associated with destructive behaviors.
13. Limited Personal Growth:
• Destructive tendencies can hinder personal and collective growth within the family. The focus may shift from personal and shared goals to crisis management.
14. Impact on Social Connections:
• The family may withdraw from social connections due to shame or embarrassment, further isolating themselves from external support.

Pray for -

1. Protection and Safety:
• Pray for the protection and safety of all family members, especially those directly affected by the destructive behaviors. Ask for divine intervention to shield them from harm.
2. Healing and Understanding:
• Pray for healing for the individual exhibiting destructive tendencies. Ask for understanding of the underlying causes and for the grace to overcome the challenges they are facing.
3. Wisdom and Discernment:
• Pray for wisdom and discernment for yourself and others involved. Seek guidance on how to respond appropriately, make informed decisions, and contribute to a resolution.
4. Strength and Resilience:
• Pray for the strength and resilience needed to navigate the challenges posed by the destructive behaviors. Ask for the courage to persevere and support others through difficult times.
5. Breaking the Cycle:
• Pray for the breaking of destructive cycles within the family. Ask for intervention to break the patterns of behavior that contribute to harm and distress.
6. Open Hearts and Minds:
• Pray for open hearts and minds, both for the individual exhibiting destructive tendencies and for family members. Ask for receptivity to change, growth, and healing.
7. Restoration of Relationships:
• Pray for the restoration of relationships within the family. Seek reconciliation and the rebuilding of trust among family members.
8. Guidance for Professionals:
• If professional help is involved, pray for guidance and wisdom for counselors, therapists, or other professionals working with the family. Ask for insight and effectiveness in their interventions.
9. Forgiveness:
• Pray for the capacity to forgive and seek forgiveness. Ask for a spirit of forgiveness to permeate the family, promoting healing and reconciliation.
10. Peace and Calm:
• Pray for a sense of peace and calm to descend upon the household. Ask for the soothing presence of divine peace to replace anxiety and tension.
11. Courage to Seek Help:
• Pray for the courage of family members to seek help when needed, whether it be through counseling, support groups, or other resources that promote healing.
12. Strength for Boundaries:
• Pray for the strength to establish and maintain healthy boundaries within the family. Ask for discernment in setting boundaries that protect the well-being of all involved.
13. Empathy and Understanding:
• Pray for the development of empathy and understanding within the family. Ask for the ability to see beyond the destructive behaviors and to foster compassion.
14. Hope for the Future:
• Pray for hope and optimism for the future. Seek reassurance that positive change is possible and that the family can move forward together.

Say this prayer on the day of your puja -

Oh Ketu Bhagavan,

We come to you seeking help for our troubled home. We feel weighed down by the violent and destructive actions of [Name of the person] that are causing a lot of sadness and stress. Please help us find a way to make things better.

Our home is filled with a lot of worry and tension. We ask for your help in calming our emotions and bringing peace to our hearts. We want to feel safe and secure, especially when destructive actions threaten the well-being of our family.

May your divine power transform him, calm him/her down.

Trust in our family has been hurt, and it's painful for all of us. We ask for your guidance in rebuilding trust and bringing us closer together. We also feel isolated from him/her, and we need your help in opening up communication and reconnecting as a family.

Children in our home are also affected, and we want them to be safe and happy. Please protect them from harm and help them cope with the difficulties they're facing.

The stress is affecting our health, both physically and mentally. We pray for healing and strength to face the challenges ahead.

Our relationships are strained, and we need your help in repairing the bonds that have been broken. We want to feel love and understanding within our family again.

Break the cycle of hurtful actions in our home, and guide us towards a future free from these problems. We ask for your light to lead us to a place of love and understanding.

Our daily lives are disrupted, and we feel emotionally exhausted. Please grant us the strength to endure and come out stronger from these tough times.

Destructive actions are holding us back from growing as individuals and as a family. We ask for your guidance in finding a positive path forward.

Our social connections are strained, and we feel isolated. Help us restore our sense of belonging and find support in a compassionate community.

Ketu Bhagavan, we trust and seek your help. May your grace lead us to a harmonious and restored home.

Om Ketave Namaha